I go on and on a lot about how good it is for guys to have female friends.
So much so, I've gotten a little bit of flack in the past. Still, I ain't budging my position on that topic. Because time and time again I've seen how clueless guys who only hang out with other guys are about women. I even saw it in the PUA community. Where most of the guys didn't do much but trade off-the-wall theories with one another.
But that's a conversation for another place and time. In this post, we're going to talk about 5 ways that guys creep out women all the time and they don't even know it. And these all come from female friends of mine, so you know they're on-point.
So let's get crackin'.
So the first way comes from my friend Lina.
And she says one of the ways that guys creep her out is when …
They stare at her but don't say anything at all.
Of course, it's natural that you wanna check out a pretty woman. And if she's really pretty, you don't wanna just look away. At the same time, you do have to realize that to the woman you are staring at …
It's creepy as hell.
So don't do it. If you make eye contact with a woman and you wanna approach her …
Go approach her.
The second way guys creep out women comes from my friend Nikki.
And she says that one of the ways guys can creep her out without knowing it is when …
They grill her with questions like she's being interviewed.
This comes up a lot whenever I talk about getting better at talking to women.
Acting like you are grilling them for info ain't a cool thing to do. Just think about what it would be like if you were standing out somewhere and someone came up and started grilling you.
It'd probably weird you out, right?
Interview style questions are not the way to go. They're too constrictive for good conversation and at the end of the day …
It's kinda creepy.
So now the third way comes from my friend Amber.
And she says she gets creeped out by …
Guys at clubs who just come up and try to dance with her when she doesn't know who they are.
It's not that hard to make a quick introduction and a little preliminary convo first. Granted, some women are open to having a guy just come up and start dancing …
But most aren't.
It's better to break the ice first.
Cuz if you don't …
You might just creep her the fuck out.
Now the fourth way comes from my friend Lea.
And she says that it's creepy as can be when …
A guy she just met starts texting her all the time.
I've talked about this plenty of times before. Just because it's easy to grab your phone and start firing off text messages, doesn't mean you should do it.
And that holds especially true when you've just met a woman.
Remember, less is almost always more when it comes to texting. A well-timed text can get her calling you back to have a phone convo. However, if you overdo it …
You're just going to come across like a creepy guy.
Finally, the fifth way guys creep women out all the time without knowing it comes from my friend Nikita.
She says it's creepy when …
The guy can't make phone conversation.
She says she hates that dead-air that happens when a guy just doesn't have much of anything to say when he calls her. And I've gotta admit, that would be kind of creepy.
Dead-air on the phone plays into a lot of horror-flick plotlines.
Always have something to say and if you don't, don't be afraid to cut the conversation short. It's better to have a short conversation without the creepy dead-air time than it is to have a long one that just sends chills down her spine.
Obviously you don't wanna come across like a creep. Hopefully, knowing these 5 ways that come straight from the lips of women will help you check yourself so you don't get classified as …
That creepy guy.