You don’t want to talk to anyone right now, because you’ve just been hit with what seems like the worst news imaginable. You don’t want people to see how crushed you are because you’ve heard that your ex girlfriend found someone else. You’d do just about anything to make it go away, to turn back time and find yourself back with her. You know that isn’t possible right now, because the reality is – she has found someone else to be with. You don’t know what to do.
I can’t tell you that it is going to be easy street from here on out. I can’t tell you that you are going to be okay with the idea that she is with another man. What I can do, is to tell you that you don’t have to go through this alone. You don’t have to feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders right now. You can lift that weight if you want to.
How do you do that and how do you handle finding out your ex girlfriend found someone else?
You find a way to push through this and come out the other end a better man. If you do, your ex girlfriend might feel stupid for choosing this other guy over you. You might not even care at that point.
Because you can decide that this is going to be the thing that finally gets you to take some action and figure out how to get good with women. I don’t mean just kind of good. I mean damn good. You can become the kind of guy who can attract women easily.
Don’t you think that would take some of the pain away?
If you knew that you could just approach the next attractive woman who crossed your path and find a way to make her feel attracted to you – would you really care that your ex girlfriend is with another guy?
You might. A little bit. But probably not as much as you do right now and that is a good thing. If you don’t know what to do right now because you’ve found out that your ex girlfriend has found someone else, here is my suggestion.
You don’t have to take it if you don’t want to, but hear me out just the same.
My suggestion to you is that you use this moment as a catalyst for change. Become the kind of guy who women find attractive. Become the kind of guy who can make a woman fall in love with you fast. You might find that your ex girlfriend DOES become attracted to you again and leaves this whats-his-name in order to go back to you.
You might not want her back, but wouldn’t it be nice to have the chance to CHOOSE?
The power of having choice in who we date is something that most guys don’t ever even think about, much less focus on. But if you look at guys who are successful and happy in their relationships and dating life?
They have choice.
They don’t just settle on the first woman they can attract.
They actually have choice and when you have that?
You will not focus on the fact that your ex girlfriend is dating someone else. Because you will know that you can win her back AND you will know that you can also attract a new woman if that’s really what you want.
That’s what I will show you how to do …
I will show you …
How to attract back your ex girlfriend even if she’s dating someone else … or how to get a new girlfriend.
Isn’t that better than just yearning for her and feeling like you have no choice at all?
You bet it is.