My Ex Girlfriend Found Someone Else And I Don’t Know What to Do

You don’t want to talk to anyone right now, because you’ve just been hit with what seems like the worst news imaginable. You don’t want people to see how crushed you are because you’ve heard that your ex girlfriend found someone else. You’d do just about anything to make it go away, to turn back time and find yourself back with her. You know that isn’t possible right now, because the reality is – she has found someone else to be with. You don’t know what to do.

I can’t tell you that it is going to be easy street from here on out. I can’t tell you that you are going to be okay with the idea that she is with another man. What I can do, is to tell you that you don’t have to go through this alone. You don’t have to feel like the weight of the world is on your shoulders right now. You can lift that weight if you want to.

How do you do that and how do you handle finding out your ex girlfriend found someone else?

You find a way to push through this and come out the other end a better man. If you do, your ex girlfriend might feel stupid for choosing this other guy over you. You might not even care at that point.

Why?

Because you can decide that this is going to be the thing that finally gets you to take some action and figure out how to get good with women. I don’t mean just kind of good. I mean damn good. You can become the kind of guy who can attract women easily.

Don’t you think that would take some of the pain away?

If you knew that you could just approach the next attractive woman who crossed your path and find a way to make her feel attracted to you – would you really care that your ex girlfriend is with another guy?

You might. A little bit. But probably not as much as you do right now and that is a good thing. If you don’t know what to do right now because you’ve found out that your ex girlfriend has found someone else, here is my suggestion.

You don’t have to take it if you don’t want to, but hear me out just the same.

My suggestion to you is that you use this moment as a catalyst for change. Become the kind of guy who women find attractive. Become the kind of guy who can make a woman fall in love with you fast. You might find that your ex girlfriend DOES become attracted to you again and leaves this whats-his-name in order to go back to you.

You might not want her back, but wouldn’t it be nice to have the chance to CHOOSE?

The power of having choice in who we date is something that most guys don’t ever even think about,  much less focus on.  But if you look at guys who are successful and happy in their relationships and dating life?

They have choice.

They don’t just settle on the first woman they can attract.

They actually have choice and when you have that?

You will not focus on the fact that your ex girlfriend is dating someone else.  Because you will know that you can win her back AND you will know that you can also attract a new woman if that’s really what you want.

That’s what I will show you how to do …

I will show you …

How to attract back your ex girlfriend even if she’s dating someone else … or how to get a new girlfriend.

Isn’t that better than just yearning for her and feeling like you have no choice at all?

You bet it is.

Go here:  How to get your ex girlfriend back even if she’s dating someone else and I’ll show you what you need to do.

How Do I Move On After Breaking Up With My Girlfriend?

Breaking up is something that isn’t really an easy thing to deal with,  especially when the reality is that you wished that the relationship had never ended in the first place.  You have to deal with so many things.  You have to deal with the fact that you are alone now.  You have to deal with the fact that you are going to miss your ex girlfriend.  You are going to have to wake up without her being at your side.  That definitely is NOT an easy thing to have to deal with for sure.

How can you move on after breaking up with your girlfriend?

1.  Do not allow yourself to become isolated socially right after the break up.

This is an easy thing to do.  You feel sad,  you don’t want to see anyone,  so you end up spending all of your time alone right after the break up.  However,  that is about the worst thing that you can do.  If you really want to be able to move on,  you need to be able to spend time with people and have a social life.

2.  Don’t allow yourself to think about the break up all of the time.

The more time you spend thinking about the break up,  how much it hurts you,  and how much you want your ex girlfriend back,  the worse you are going to feel.  You don’t need to do that to yourself.  What you need to do is clear your mind of those kinds of thoughts for a while.  You can’t possibly move on if you are constantly thinking about the break up and thinking about your ex girlfriend.

3.  You have to allow yourself to visualize a new woman coming into your life.

I am not suggesting that you are going to imagine a woman in your mind and she is going to just come into your life as if by magic.  That’s not going to happen.  What you need to do is get comfortable with the idea that you can be with another woman and stop seeing yourself as being attached to your former girlfriend.

My Ex Girlfriend is Dating a Loser – Don’t Take it Too Seriously

Finding out that your ex girlfriend is dating a loser is kind of a weird scenario.

On the one hand,  you are probably a little bit upset by the fact that she is dating again.  On the other hand,  it’s kind of a good thing that she hasn’t found a perfect guy,  right?  It would be a lot harder to try and win back an ex girlfriend from another guy if he didn’t have any flaws.  Since the guy she is dating right now is a loser in your opinion,  that should mean that you have a little bit better odds of getting back together with her.

Don’t take it too seriously if your ex girlfriend is dating a loser.

That would be a big mistake.  Even though she might not break up with him right away,  the fact that he isn’t a winner does suggest that she probably won’t be with him for too long.  Not only that,  the fact that her new boyfriend is a loser bodes well for you if you want to try and outshine him.

That’s what you need to do.  Outshine him.

As long as you are able to look better in just about every way when compared to this new guy that she is dating,  you are going to have the edge as far as getting back with her.  This should be easy for you to do as long as you don’t blow your cool and you don’t make him look better than he really is in the process.

What should you do to outshine this loser your ex girlfriend is dating?

Get your life in order.  In every way that you can.  That means that you want to get your finances in good shape,  you want to get your physical condition in as good of shape as you possibly can,   and you want to come across as being more charismatic and attractive than the man she is with.  If you can come across this way,  it doesn’t matter that your ex girlfriend is dating a loser right now.

What matters is that you WILL be able to get her back as long as you don’t screw things up along the way.

Final tip …

Stop comparing yourself to him even if you think he’s a loser.

This is one of those things that’ll help you out in all aspects of your life.  Most people spend way too much time trying to compare themselves to other people.  Even if you feel like he’s a loser and you are much better for your ex girlfriend?

Stop comparing yourself to him.

Stop focusing on him.

Your energy can be better spent working on yourself and making your life better.  And in doing that … and dropping the habit of comparing yourself to the loser your ex girlfriend is dating?

You’ll have a much better chance to win her back.

You’ll be focused on the RIGHT things.