I Think My Girlfriend Might Want to Break Up With Me

Question:  I am starting to get the feeling that my girlfriend might want to break up with me.  We’ve been dating for about 6 months.  For the last month or so,  it seems like she doesn’t want to spend as much time with me.  She’s even broken arrangements at the last moment a couple of times.  What should I do?

Answer:  Well,  at least it’s good that you are aware that something has changed.  A lot of guys don’t really realize that things aren’t going that well until it is too late and they are getting dumped.  So,  that’s one good thing.  It’s far better to recognize that your relationship may be in trouble before it comes to an end.

Patching things up with her now,  while she still is your girlfriend is far easier than to wait until the relationship totally unravels and you are trying to win her back because she is your ex girlfriend.

You might not want to jump to conclusions just yet,  though.  There could be many mundane reasons why it seems like she is pulling away from you.  Keep that in mind.

However,  if you are getting the feeling that your girlfriend is starting to pull away and you think that it might mean that your girlfriend wants to break up with you,  then there are some steps that you can take.

1)  Try to bring the romance aspect back into the relationship.

This ends up being one of the most common reasons why a woman will start to pull away.  Once the romance is gone,  everything else just kinds of fade away.

2)  Don’t panic about her pulling away from you.

If she is pulling away a little bit and you panic,  then you are going to try to overcompensate and that is usually when you’ll make a big mistake.

3)  Be the guy that she fell for in the beginning. 

It’s easy to become a little too comfortable in a relationship and stop being the guy that she fell for when you first started dating her.  If she is pulling away from you,  then you want to remind her of WHY she fell for you in the first place.

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Why Did She Break Up With Me – She Said There Was No Chemistry

Why did she break up with me?

Guys ask this question all of the time when they have just gotten their heart torn out their chest and they are struggling to comprehend the reason for the break up.  When you feel like you have been dumped and you don’t know why that is,  that can be a terrible experience to have to deal with.

What if she did give you a reason,  though?  What if she said that the reason she broke up with you was because their was no chemistry?

What exactly does it mean when a woman says that there is no chemistry?

This is usually code for –  there is no physical attraction.  Usually when a woman says that there is no chemistry,  it is just a polite way for her to say that she is not sexually attracted to you.  As much as it may suck to have to hear this,  it is important that you understand that this is what it usually means.  Now,  you may think that this means that you have absolutely no chance of winning her back,  but that really does not have to be the case at all.

There is a chance that you CAN win her back if you are able to make her feel sexually attracted to you again.

You do know that she was sexually attracted to you before,  at least to some extent,  and you can make her feel that way again.  Then,  you won’t have to worry about her saying that there is no chemistry between you and her,  because there will be and the sparks will be flying high again.

What is a good way to make her feel chemistry with you?

The best way to go about doing this with an ex girlfriend is to make sure that you are not coming across as being too easy for her.  She needs to think of you as being a challenge,  because that is a lot more exciting than a guy she knows that she can get.

The other thing that you need to do is to try and create a feeling of sexual chemistry between you and her.  You want her to feel this way because it is RARE that a woman feels a lot of sexual chemistry between herself and a guy and that usually means that she will be thinking of you as a guy she wants to hop into bed with again and a guy that she wants to be in a relationship with again.

5 Signs That Your Relationship is Over – You Have to Pay Attention to These

You never see it coming,  do ya?

You feel like your relationship is solid and that you are going to be able to go the distance with this one.  And you know what happens?

Not only do you NOT go the distance with her,  she ends up breaking your heart.  You should have seen it coming, though.

All of the clues were already there.

She made it obvious at times that she just was not feeling you the way that she used to and that should have been a good indication that there was something wrong with the relationship.

You have to pay attention or else you can end up feeling like you have been run over by a Mack truck when she dumps you.  I am guessing that you don’t ever want to feel that way, am I right?

Here are 5 signs that your relationship is over,  so you better pay attention to these:

1)  You get the feeling that your girlfriend might be creeping around on you.

No guy wants to think that their girlfriend is going to cheat on them,  but it does happen.  And it usually is preceded by that gut feeling that it is happening.  She tells you that she is just going to go hang out with a friend after work.  She makes it seem like that friend is a woman,  but you kind of get the feeling that it might be a man. If you are getting that feeling, then you may have to deal with the reality that it is a dude she is going to see and that the relationship is bound to be just a memory.

2)  You just get bored whenever she is around,  unless you are having sex with her.

You know what?  When you realize that the only thing that you like about spending time with your girlfriend is when the two of you are having sex,  you might as well admit that the relationship is done with.  Yeah,  you might still be seeing each other and sleeping with each other.  If you can’t spend more than a few minutes with your clothes on and not get bored with her being around,  then you might as well admit that this relationship is probably not going to go the distance.

3)  Neither one of you wants to get to know each other any better.

You know how great it is when you first start conversing with one another and you actually look forward to getting to know things about her that you don’t know yet?  Well,  when it no longer feels great and you really don’t care to know any more about her,  that may be a clue that things are not as good as they could be.  When it is obvious that she feels the same way,  then the relationship might as well come to an end.

4)  You would rather spend a Friday night alone watching a boring television show than go out with your girlfriend.

You know you are not in a relationship that is meant to last if you are looking forward to watching reruns of Star Trek on Friday night rather than going out to a club with your girlfriend.  If you would much rather spend your time on the couch and in front of the tube by yourself,  then that may be an indication that the writing is on the wall and that you are done with the relationship for good.

5)  Your girlfriend no longer introduces YOU to her friends as her boyfriend,  just as her “friend.”

These kinds of things are not meant to go backwards.  When you first start dating her,  it is perfectly fine for her to refer to you as a friend,  at least until she is sure that you are going to be more than that.  Once you have made that transition into being introduced as her boyfriend,  you do not want to go back to being introduced as just her friend.  That is a pretty subtle way of her saying that you are no longer her boyfriend in her mind.