Should I buy flowers or some kind of jewelry gift for my ex girlfriend?

It’s the “obvious” thing to do.

At least, that’s what most guys seem to think. They want to get back with their ex girlfriend and so …

They decide they should buy some kind of a gift for their ex girlfriend.

Flowers are usually one of the first things that come to mind.

Jewelry also usually pops up as one of the options as well.

So …

Should you send flowers to your ex girlfriend?

The answer is a big fat No.

You shouldn’t send her flowers. And the reason for that is pretty easy to digest. Because it’s about …

Timing.

See, when she’s your ex girlfriend and you aren’t really on track to getting back together?

The timing is off.

Way off.

And so, it’s going to change the way she interprets your gift. This is not just true for flowers. It’s true for pretty much any gift you can think of. Think about it. If you are attracted to someone and they send you a gift?

You generally love it.

No matter what it is.

But …

If that attraction has someone gone away and they send you a gift?

Even if you love the actual thing they sent you … you usually don’t love the fact that it was them who sent it to you.

And that’s what really matters here.

It’s the WHO who is behind the gift.

So if you shouldn’t send flowers to an ex girlfriend … what should you do?

First, focus on the no contact rule. Follow it. As much as you may want to reach out to your ex girlfriend …

Practice and exercise some self control.

It’s not going to have the effect on her you want it to have. It’s not going to make her come running back into your arms.

Next …

Learn how to rebuild the attraction with her.

This is the thing that’s REALLY missing. This is the missing piece. The one thing that’ll make it so you don’t have to send her anything at all … unless you like to.

When the attraction is back … when she is thinking about you when you are not around …

That is the perfect time to send her a little something.

And it doesn’t have to be all that impressive. It doesn’t have to be a dozen long-stem roses or diamond jewelry or anything like that.

A little token of your affection will suffice.

Because it is the attraction that matters most.

The other thing about wanting to give your ex girlfriend gifts like flowers and jewelry is …

Most guys think of it as being a shortcut. A simple thing they can do that’s going to get them exactly what they want. They imagine the process of attracting their ex girlfriend back is just going to be way too hard. Take way too long and so, they imagine that if they send a simple gift … it will do all the “hard” work for them.

Truth is, winning back an ex girlfriend doesn’t have to be that hard.

Not when you truly understand exactly what to do to make her feel like she wants you …

And only you.

Would you like to know how to do just that?

100 Questions to ask your ex girlfriend

It’s not always easy to come up with the right questions to ask your ex girlfriend.  It’s very easy to find yourself stumped for something to say to her.  If you’ve ever felt that way or feel that way right now,  then keep reading.  You are going to get some starter questions that can help get her talking,  help you build rapport and attraction with her … and make sure that you don’t have any awkward silences when you are around your ex girlfriend.

Truth is,  as long as you are relaxed and comfortable … and she feels relaxed and comfortable … you can ask her just about anything and it will get the conversation flowing.  And that’s the point.  To get the conversation flowing.

This page is going to help you do just that.

Now,  I do want to make it clear that this is not an end-all,  be-all kind of list.  This is really just to get you started.  So that you don’t feel as though you have nothing to ask your ex girlfriend or nothing to get a conversation flowing with her.

The good thing about questions is … as long as you don’t make it seem like you are asking too many at once …

They almost always work to get conversation going.

So use this list as a starter.  But come up with some of your own.  That way,  it doesn’t seem as though you’ve rehearsed anything.

 

Here are 100 quick questions to ask your ex girlfriend that can get the conversation flowing with her:

1. How did your day go today?

2. Who would you say is your best friend?

3. Why do you consider them to be your best friend?

4. What group do you consider to be your favorite band?

5. Why do you consider them your favorite band?

6. What is your absolute favorite kind of music?

7. What concert did you go to that was your favorite?

8. Why was that your favorite concert? What happened there?

9. What type of day would you consider to be a perfect day.

10. What would you do on your perfect day?

11. Who would you be with on that day and why that person?

12. Do you like sushi?

13. Do you agree that men are hard to understand?

14. Do blondes really have more fun?

15. Have you ever dyed your hair?

16. Would you ever dye your hair?

17. Would you ever get a tattoo?

18. What would you get a tattoo of and why that tattoo?

19. Do you like coffee?

20. What was the worst class you ever took in school?

21. What was the best class you ever took in school?

22. Have you ever had a pet?

23. Do you like animals?

24. What is your favorite animal and why that animal?

25. Do you know how to drive a stick shift?

26. What was the best date you ever went on like?

27. What was the WORST date you ever went on like?

28. When did you have your first kiss?

29. Do you like your job/career?

30. Why did you choose that job./career?

31. Do you like to play video games?

32. Do you like guys who play video games?

33. Are sports something that you like to do?

34. What sport is your absolute favorite?

35. What sport is the most boring in the whole world to you?

36. How many pairs of shoes do you own?

37. Are you one of those girls who is addicted to shoes?

38. What’s the first word that comes to mind when you hear the word, dating?

39. If you could travel anywhere in the world and spend a week there, where would it be?

40. Why would pick that place, is there any special reason?

41. Have you ever been to a foreign country?

42. Do you like traveling?

43. Why is the Keeping Up With The Kardashians such a hit?

44. Do you watch a lot of television?

45. What is the best show on television in your eyes?

46. If you could never watch television again, would you freak out?

47. Did you go to your high school prom?

48. Did you like the guy you went to the prom with?

49. If you could do it all over again, would that guy you went to the prom with be your first choice?

50. What was your first day of college like?

51. Did you do more partying or studying in college?

52. Ever have a crush on one of your professors?

53. Have you ever broken a guy’s heart?

54. Have you ever competed with a friend for a guy?

55. Has a guy ever come between you and one of your friends?

56. Do you still watch cartoons ever?

57. If you do, what cartoon is it and why?

58. Have you ever lied to your parents about something?

59. How long do you have to be dating a guy to introduce him to your family?

60. Have you ever kissed another girl?

61. What was the was the worst job that you ever had to do?

62. Were you popular in high school?

63. Do you still hang out with the same friends from high school or college?

64. Have you ever had sex in public?

65. Have you ever made out in public?

66. Did you ever get caught fooling around with someone?

67. Is cheating okay?

68. Has anyone ever broken your heart?

69. Have you ever been cheated on?

70. What is your favorite subject to read up on?

71. If you had to choose between television and books, what would you choose, honestly?

72. What is the stupidest thing you ever spent money on?

73. Do you know how to cook?

74. What would you cook for me and why?

75. Do you like guys who know how to cook?

76. What was your funniest summer camp experience?

77. Were you a geek in the band? Don’t lie…

78. Would you date a guy who was in a band?

79. What do you think about ‘open’ relationships?

80. Is the 3 day rule to call a woman, silly or the right thing?

81. How many dates does it take for you to know that you really like a guy?

82. What would your friends say is your BEST quality?

83. What would your friends say is your WORST quality?

84. Do you like lazy Sundays?

85. Which is better, hot or cold weather?

86. Do you know how to ski or ice skate?

87. What would be the most romantic thing a guy can do for a woman?

88. Do you think that love stinks?

89. Are you a closet computer geek?

90. Would you say that you were a typical woman?

91. Did you ever like ‘boy bands’ like One Direction?

92. Do you like clubs or bars or neither?

93. What is the longest you have gone without sex?

94. Which is better, Spring or Fall?

95. What do you prefer, beer or wine?

96. Would you ever call in sick to work to just go out and have fun?

97. How do you like to be kissed?

98. What is your favorite place to be touched?

99. Have you ever had a crush on a woman?

100. Do I ask too many questions?

Truth is,  there are lots of questions you can ask your ex girlfriend.  Anything that you can think of that will help you get to know her better,  to make her feel like talking to you is fun,  or anything that builds attraction and rapport is going to be a good question to ask.

And remember,  timing is everything.  Ask a question at the wrong time and you might not like the result.  But ask it at the right time and it just might appear to be the perfect thing to say to her.

My Ex Girlfriend Says She Hates Me – How Can I Make Her Love Me Again?

Hearing that your ex girlfriend feels like she hates you right now may seem like the worst thing that you could ever hear, but it’s probably not as bad as you think.

See, in order to hate someone, that means that they have to still have a big place in your life and they still have to be someone that you think about a lot. So, there’s a little bit of a silver lining, because hearing that she hates you means she does still think about you a lot and with intense feelings. It’s actually much worse to hear that she couldn’t care less about you, because that means that she has lost all feeling for you. Of course, you don’t want her to hate you if you are trying to win her back, but there’s a solution for that.

So, how can you make her love you again if she says that she hates you right now?

1. You don’t want to stoke the fire anymore, so give her a little bit of space.

At this point, you really don’t want to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to be around her too much. You don’t want that hate feeling that she has to grow any stronger. So, giving her some space is always going to be one of the best things that you can do. Don’t worry, because this is just going to be a temporary thing.

2. You want to know why your ex girlfriend hates you.

Knowing why she feels so strongly that she would say that she hates you is important, because that is what you are going to have to try to change her opinion on. You probably know what it is that really makes her feel that way, but if you don’t, you need to find out.

3. You need to turn that hate into love by using attraction as the catalyst.

Like I said, hate means that she still has strong feelings for you, they just are not the ones that you want her to have. What you need to do is find a way to make her feel so attracted to you again, that the hate turns to love. It can happen if you know how to trigger her attraction in such a way that she finds herself thinking about you just as much, but in the way that you want her to.

You might assume that hearing that your ex girlfriend hates you means that you have no chance of winning her back, but that might not be true. If you are able to use attraction as a way to turn that hate around, you may find that you ARE able to make her love you again. Of course, you DO have to know how to make her feel attracted to you and then escalate that attraction to the point where her feelings begin to change.