My Ex Girlfriend is Playing Hard to Get – What Should I Do?

In just about any situation where you feel like a woman is playing hard to get with you,  it can be difficult to figure out what it is that you should do and how you should react.  Many a man has made mistakes when he is been caught in a situation like this.  You definitely don’t want to screw things up and do the wrong thing,  so it is a good idea that you’d want to get some input and advice on how you should react to feeling like your ex girlfriend is playing hard to get.

Make Sure That Your Ex Girlfriend Really IS Playing Hard to Get With You –

This is the first thing that I would suggest that you do.  When it comes to dealing with an ex girlfriend,  a lot of the time men will see what they want to see.  Meaning,  they will want to feel like their ex girlfriend is playing hard to get when that may not really be the case at all.  So,  you want to take a realistic perspective of things and not come to a conclusion too soon.  For example,  I have had guys exclaim that their ex girlfriend is playing hard to get when the clear answer is that she just doesn’t really want anything at all to do with them.

Don’t Overreact to Your Ex Girlfriend Playing Hard to Get With You –

The main thing is that you don’t want to overreact to a situation like this.  The moment that you overreact to your ex girlfriend playing hard to get with you,  you end up losing any chance that you have of being able to attract her back to you. You want to be calm about things.  You want to have an attitude like it doesn’t really bother you at all.  More than that,  you actually DO want to feel that way,  you don’t want to just fake like that is the way that you feel.

Use Push/Pull to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend –

This is a really good situation where you can use a proven seduction technique like push/pull to bring your ex girlfriend back.  Most guys will never ever use a technique like this and that will end up being the reason WHY they don’t end up winning back their ex girlfriend.  When she is playing hard to get with you, using push/pull to create powerful sexual attraction with your ex girlfriend is going to be one of the best things that you can do.

How to Attract Your Ex Girlfriend – Bargaining With Her is Not Going to Work

I’d have to say that one of the most used tactics by guys who just don’t know any better is trying to bargain with an ex girlfriend to make her give them a second chance.  It’s kind of like the default response that men have when they just don’t know any better and they are all out of ideas on how to try and attract their ex girlfriend back to them.  Look,  this has to be said.  Trying to bargain with your ex girlfriend in an attempt to win her back is NOT the thing that you want to do.  It almost never works and even if it were to work,  it would most likely be a temporary thing.

You want more than that,  I am sure that you do.  You don’t want to have to bargain with a woman to make her give you a second chance.  You just want her to feel like you are worth it.  While you may get that urge to try and plead with her and offer up some kind of a tradeoff if she were to take you back,  you need to fight that urge with all your might.  How many men have gone out and bought jewelry or other expensive gifts for their ex girlfriend only to get dumped again after they give her those gifts?

What is a Much Better Way to Attract Your Ex Girlfriend Back?

To answer this,  just look at what it is that you are trying to do.  You are trying to ATTRACT her back.  So,  in order to do that,  you really have to have a good understanding of what it is that will attract her back to you.  And it is not going to be the gifts that you can give her or the favors that you can do for her.  To get her back through attraction –  you have to do your best to appear attractive to her.

Most women are attracted to men who give off the alpha male vibe.  They don’t know why this is usually,  they just know that these are the kinds of guys that they tend to want to be with.  If you want to win back your ex girlfriend,  then you are going to have to do your best to make her see you as an alpha male.

An alpha male does not have to bargain with a woman to make her want him,  she just does naturally because she responds to his character,  his charm and his charisma.  These are the things that you need to develop if you want to attract back your ex girlfriend.

My ex girlfriend says she needs time – Is that a good sign?

“I just need some time to figure things out.”

Does that sound familiar to you at all?

If you have had some contact with your ex girlfriend and in that contact,  she has said that she needs some time to think about things,  you might be worried.

You know that you don’t need any time to think,  you already know what it is that you want.

You want her back in your life.  However,  you also want to be careful that you don’t do anything to make your ex girlfriend feel rushed,  because you know that could end up making her feel like you are not really the right kind of guy for her to be with.

Is it a good sign that your ex girlfriend says that she just needs some time?

The problem is,  you have to be able to see things from all sides to really get a good impression of what your ex girlfriend is thinking right now.  See,  the “I need some time” thing can really mean just that,  or …

It can be just a way for her to brush you off without being too callous about it.  It’s hard to say whether or not it is a good sign that your ex girlfriend says that she needs time to think about things,  because it really could be either/or.

What you need to do in this moment,  is to collect yourself because you definitely don’t want to make a bad move here.

You definitely don’t want to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to rush her into making a decision about getting back together.

It CAN be a good sign if she says that she needs some time to think about things,  but that doesn’t mean that you are definitely going to be able to get your ex girlfriend back.

Still,  you have to know this –

There are certain things that you need to do and you have to do them the right way… or else during that time that she has to think about things…

She might come to the conclusion that you DON’T want her to come to and she might decide that getting back together is NOT the thing to do.