So if you think about it, in some ways, we don’t really evolve all that much from high school. Back then, you probably wondered about whether or not a certain girl liked you. You tried to look for “clues” that would help you out. And if you are like most guys, most of the time … you got it wrong!
Don’t feel bad.
We all went through that before.
But the good news is, you don’t have to sweat it out like you did in high school. You can learn a few ways to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you and look for those ‘tells’ and be right more often than not.
We’re going to go through 5 ways to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you or not in this post.
Let’s get crackin’ then.
The first way to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you or not …
She can’t stop laughing at all your corny jokes.
To be able to see this, you have to be brutally honest about which jokes of yours are really corny. A lot of guys don’t have this self-awareness. They actually think their corny jokes … aren’t so corny. You gotta be able to be honest enough if you want to be able to tell if she’s laughing at your corny jokes.
The second way to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you or not …
She wants to change you.
It might sound a bit stereotypical. But there’s a good reason for the stereotype of women wanting to change guys they like. It’s what they do. It might be a bit annoying. And it might make you think that she doesn’t like you so much if she’s always trying to change you. But most of the time, it means that she likes you. That’s why she wants you to change. So you become “perfect” boyfriend material.
The third way to figure out if your ex girlfriend still likes you or not …
She’s dropping hints that you and her should hang out.
This is one that should be kind of obvious. But it’s not always. Not to all guys. Even if the thing she wants to do with you isn’t what you want to do … You have to be able to read between the lines. It means that she wants to spend time with you doing the things she likes, which almost always means she likes you. Otherwise, she wouldn’t want you to come and hang.
The fourth way to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you or not …
She likes to challenge you on your opinions.
This is closely related to her wanting to change you. A lot of women like to challenge a guy they like to see what he does. Does he change his opinions? Does he hold his ground? Whatever she’s looking for, it’s almost always a sign that she’s feeling interested in you and of course, that’s a good thing.
The fifth way to figure out if your ex girlfriend likes you or not …
She’s showing non-stop body language signs that she’s attracted to you.
These can be subtle. And if you don’t know what to look for, you could end up missing out on most of them. Plenty of times, I’ve seen friends getting all sorts of body language signs from a woman … and they don’t even know it. You want to learn at least a little bit about what body language signs women give off when they are attracted to a guy. Because if you don’t know … You could end up missing out on getting back with your ex girlfriend.