Hearing that your ex girlfriend feels like she hates you right now may seem like the worst thing that you could ever hear, but it’s probably not as bad as you think.
See, in order to hate someone, that means that they have to still have a big place in your life and they still have to be someone that you think about a lot. So, there’s a little bit of a silver lining, because hearing that she hates you means she does still think about you a lot and with intense feelings. It’s actually much worse to hear that she couldn’t care less about you, because that means that she has lost all feeling for you. Of course, you don’t want her to hate you if you are trying to win her back, but there’s a solution for that.
So, how can you make her love you again if she says that she hates you right now?
1. You don’t want to stoke the fire anymore, so give her a little bit of space.
At this point, you really don’t want to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to be around her too much. You don’t want that hate feeling that she has to grow any stronger. So, giving her some space is always going to be one of the best things that you can do. Don’t worry, because this is just going to be a temporary thing.
2. You want to know why your ex girlfriend hates you.
Knowing why she feels so strongly that she would say that she hates you is important, because that is what you are going to have to try to change her opinion on. You probably know what it is that really makes her feel that way, but if you don’t, you need to find out.
3. You need to turn that hate into love by using attraction as the catalyst.
Like I said, hate means that she still has strong feelings for you, they just are not the ones that you want her to have. What you need to do is find a way to make her feel so attracted to you again, that the hate turns to love. It can happen if you know how to trigger her attraction in such a way that she finds herself thinking about you just as much, but in the way that you want her to.
You might assume that hearing that your ex girlfriend hates you means that you have no chance of winning her back, but that might not be true. If you are able to use attraction as a way to turn that hate around, you may find that you ARE able to make her love you again. Of course, you DO have to know how to make her feel attracted to you and then escalate that attraction to the point where her feelings begin to change.