You may have heard that you need to “let go” of an ex girlfriend if you want to be able to win her back. And while that may sound good at first, you’ve probably found that it isn’t exactly easy to do. After all, if you still feel like you love her, then the last thing that you want to do is let go, right?
Well, you don’t really have to.
At least, not entirely.
See, a lot of guys make the mistake of thinking that it means that they have to let go of all the memories of her, all of the time they had fun together, and all the feelings that they have.
What you really want to do is to let go of the attachment that you feel. Let go of the feeling that you need to be with her in order to be happy. Let go of the need to see her in order to smile. Let go of the need to hear her say I love you in order to feel good about yourself.
Those are the things that you really need to let go of. Because, if you think about it, they are still there. You’ll still have memories of her. You’ll still remember what it was like to hear her say I love you.
But, the one thing that makes it hard to move on or to even win her back, is when you feel like you NEED her around you all of the time in order to be happy.
So, what you really want to do is let go of all the needing. The desperation. The yearning.
IF you can do that, then you’ll be in a good position to either win her back or meet someone else and not carry all of that old baggage into a new relationship.