How Do I Tell My Ex I Still Love Her?

Question:  I really feel like I still love my ex girlfriend.  Right after we broke up,  I was mad as hell at her,  but that only lasted like a week.  After that,  all I can do is think about her and how much I love her.  I want her back and I want her to be my girlfriend again,  but I don’t know how to tell her that I still love her.  I don’t want to say that to her and then have her act like she doesn’t feel the same way.  How do I tell my ex that I still am in love with her?

Answer:  You DON’T.  Not yet.  You have to be willing to put that off for right now.  I know,  you think it will feel really good to get it off your chest,  but how long will that good feeling last if she gives you that weird look that totally tells you that she doesn’t feel that way about you right now?

What you have to do,  if you want her back as your girlfriend,  is put off the idea of telling your ex girlfriend that you still love her for right now.

Timing is a huge issue when it comes to telling a woman that you love her,  even if she is someone that you used to tell that to when you were dating.  If you are not in a relationship with her right now and you are not dating,  the time is NOT RIGHT.

You have to make her feel like she is falling back in love with you and that is when you can tell her that you love her.  That is when she is going to hear you say that and feel like it is what she has wanted you to say.  That is when the timing is going to be right.  Look,  you can’t make a woman want to come back to you just by saying that you love her.  It’s not that easy.  You have to make her feel like she still loves you so that when you DO say I love you to her,  she feels the same exact way.

To make it easy,  this is the takeaway if you still love your ex girlfriend and you want to tell her:

  • Hold off because the timing isn’t right yet…
  • Make her fall back in love with you…
  • Tell her when she is ready to hear it…