- She might have her defenses up and that’s going to make it a little harder to create rapport with your ex girlfriend.
- What worked to create rapport with her before might not work again.
- The easiest way to create rapport with a woman is to ACT LIKE AN ALPHA MALE.
While it may seem hard right now to create rapport with your ex girlfriend, I want to point out something.
You already did it once before.
That’s how she became your girlfriend. So what you are really trying to do is RECREATE rapport with your ex girlfriend.
That’s really what we’re going to talk about. How to RECREATE that rapport that you once had with her. And yeah … it ain’t always a walk in the park. Still, it CAN be done and it can actually be kinda easy *if* you know what you are doing.
The first thing that you have to know is …
She might have her defenses up and that’s going to make it a little harder to create rapport with your ex girlfriend.
In fact, she probably will. Sometimes guys in the PUA world will call it a bitch shield. That’s normal. And to be expected. Women are pretty savvy when it comes to relationships. Moreso than most guys are. She probably knows that you are going to try to do “something” to win her back. And naturally, she’s going to have a skeptical side to her, even if a part of her is open to the idea of getting back together.
The second thing that you have to know is …
What worked to create rapport with her before might not work again.
I mean the exact same things. That’s one of the things that guys kind of get wrong. They’ll forget that she’s not exactly the same woman she was when they met. So the old things that you did might not go over so well. We’re all changing, all the time. Even if it is ever-so-slightly. You gotta get to know the “new” her and be adaptable when you meet up with her and are around her.
That said …
The easiest way to create rapport with a woman is to ACT LIKE AN ALPHA MALE.
Because it’s the way you are supposed to act. And she’s wired by NATURE to respond to that.
It can’t be an over-the-top act.
She’ll be able to see right through it. She’ll know that you are just putting on an act. Plus, a lot of guys have a distorted view of what an alpha male is. They see guys acting a certain way on television and in movies … and they assume that’s what they should do.
Almost always …
The answer is No. You shouldn’t emulate what you see on televison and in movies. Cuz it’s fake. It’s fiction.
When you act like an alpha male and it seems NATURAL …
She will respond and she will be in RAPPORT with you.
It’s that SIMPLE.