My Ex Girlfriend Has Been Sending Me Text Messages

Okay, so your ex girlfriend has started to send you text messages, kind of out of the blue, and you are curious as to what that actually might mean.

  • Does it mean that she wants you back?
  • Does it mean that she just wants to be friends with you?

These kinds of things can make your mind race, going from one thought to another and all you really want to be able to do is to make some sense of it. If your ex girlfriend is sending you text messages, does it mean that she wants you back?

It all depends, really.

It depends on when she sends them, what frequency, what she actually texts you, etc.

Here are some things that you want to look out for so you know what is going on when your ex girlfriend starts to text you again:

1. Simple conversations that sound like friend talk, usually means that she is looking for a friend to talk to.

If she sends you texts like, Hey wat’s up? or guess what happened… , those kinds of texts are pretty friend like, so it would probably mean that what she is doing is she is just looking for a friend to talk to and you happen to be there. This isn’t necessarily a bad thing, because you can turn that around and make her want you again, but it takes a little time and know how to do that.

2. If her text messages are really personal, sexual, or show that she is really curious about you, that indicates that she is looking for intimacy of some kind.

Of course, not all intimacy means sex. However, women usually only look for that kind of intimacy with someone that they are attracted to or have a romantic interest, so you probably want to assume that she does still like you on some level as more than a friend. That is a GOOD THING. You can take a situation like this and really amplify that attraction so that she wants you back pretty quickly.

3. Late night text messages are also usually a good thing.

When it comes to texting, late night texts generally mean that you are more than just someone that she wants to talk to. Sure, there are examples of this where that is not the case, but most of the time this is a scenario that you can have some fun with and usually means that you DO have a good chance of being able to get back with her.