“I just need some time to figure things out.”
Does that sound familiar to you at all?
If you have had some contact with your ex girlfriend and in that contact, she has said that she needs some time to think about things, you might be worried.
You know that you don’t need any time to think, you already know what it is that you want.
You want her back in your life. However, you also want to be careful that you don’t do anything to make your ex girlfriend feel rushed, because you know that could end up making her feel like you are not really the right kind of guy for her to be with.
Is it a good sign that your ex girlfriend says that she just needs some time?
The problem is, you have to be able to see things from all sides to really get a good impression of what your ex girlfriend is thinking right now. See, the “I need some time” thing can really mean just that, or …
It can be just a way for her to brush you off without being too callous about it. It’s hard to say whether or not it is a good sign that your ex girlfriend says that she needs time to think about things, because it really could be either/or.
What you need to do in this moment, is to collect yourself because you definitely don’t want to make a bad move here.
You definitely don’t want to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to rush her into making a decision about getting back together.
It CAN be a good sign if she says that she needs some time to think about things, but that doesn’t mean that you are definitely going to be able to get your ex girlfriend back.
Still, you have to know this –
There are certain things that you need to do and you have to do them the right way… or else during that time that she has to think about things…
She might come to the conclusion that you DON’T want her to come to and she might decide that getting back together is NOT the thing to do.