3 Of the most common texting mistakes guys unknowingly make nearly all the time

The texting game is one that you need to learn.

However,  it’s not one that anyone’s really going to teach you.  It’s another one of those things that you are just supposed to figure out all on your own.  And because of that,  it’s nearly inevitable that you are going to make a lot of mistakes.

Of course,  we can workaround that.  Because,  we can look at 3 of the most common texting mistakes guys unknowingly make nearly all the time and when you can avoid those … you’ll be much better off.

So are you ready to find out what these 3 texting mistakes are?

The first texting mistake guys unknowingly make is …

They text way too often.

For the most part,  texting isn’t like having a phone conversation.  You don’t have to go back and forth and back and forth and back and forth.  It’s okay to have a time gap in between your texts to a woman.

Having those gaps achieves a few things:

1)  It suggests that you are busy and not just sitting around waiting to text her.
2)  It gives both you and her time to think about your replies.
3)  It takes most of the “pressure” off of a conversation.

Don’t be like most guys and assume that texting her over and over is a good thing.  It’s not.  If you do,  it quickly becomes annoying.  It makes you seem like you have no life.  And it shows that you aren’t really up on the texting game.

The second texting mistake guys unknowingly make is …

They try to be funny and it doesn’t land.

Words on a screen don’t pack the same punch that spoken words do.  When you tell a joke in person,  you are giving off signals that you can’t when it’s just words on a screen.  There’s no vocal tonality.  There’s no emotion on your face.  And there’s none of the other body language tells that make it clear you are just joking.

Plenty of times,  I’ve heard guys complain about texting a woman what was supposed to be a joke and the woman takes it the wrong way.

Read your text back in several different moods before you send it.  If it sounds like it can be taken the wrong way …

Chances are good the joke won’t land well.

If that’s the case,  don’t send it.

And the third texting mistake guys unknowingly make is …

They send sexual texts and it gets weird.

If you don’t already know it,  women and men don’t usually think of the same things when they think of “dirty talk.”  What women think of is usually along the lines of romance and what guys usually think of is along the lines of what you’d read in an adult magazine.

Take a cue from all the politicians and athletes and celebrities who’ve had their sexual texts get taken in a weird way.

Don’t send it.

That’s not to say that you can never have sexual texting (sexting) going on.  But you do have to know that most of the time,  when guys try it,  they end up weirding out the woman and not turning her on.

Okay,  so this post isn’t going to give you all that you need to know when it comes to texting women.  But it should give you a good jumpstart.  Like I said,  this is all stuff that you are supposed to figure out all on your own.

And that means most guys screw it up more often than not.

But you won’t be like most guys.

If you avoid these 3 mistakes.

My Ex Girlfriend Says She Hates Me – How Can I Make Her Love Me Again?

Hearing that your ex girlfriend feels like she hates you right now may seem like the worst thing that you could ever hear, but it’s probably not as bad as you think.

See, in order to hate someone, that means that they have to still have a big place in your life and they still have to be someone that you think about a lot. So, there’s a little bit of a silver lining, because hearing that she hates you means she does still think about you a lot and with intense feelings. It’s actually much worse to hear that she couldn’t care less about you, because that means that she has lost all feeling for you. Of course, you don’t want her to hate you if you are trying to win her back, but there’s a solution for that.

So, how can you make her love you again if she says that she hates you right now?

1. You don’t want to stoke the fire anymore, so give her a little bit of space.

At this point, you really don’t want to make your ex girlfriend feel like you are trying to be around her too much. You don’t want that hate feeling that she has to grow any stronger. So, giving her some space is always going to be one of the best things that you can do. Don’t worry, because this is just going to be a temporary thing.

2. You want to know why your ex girlfriend hates you.

Knowing why she feels so strongly that she would say that she hates you is important, because that is what you are going to have to try to change her opinion on. You probably know what it is that really makes her feel that way, but if you don’t, you need to find out.

3. You need to turn that hate into love by using attraction as the catalyst.

Like I said, hate means that she still has strong feelings for you, they just are not the ones that you want her to have. What you need to do is find a way to make her feel so attracted to you again, that the hate turns to love. It can happen if you know how to trigger her attraction in such a way that she finds herself thinking about you just as much, but in the way that you want her to.

You might assume that hearing that your ex girlfriend hates you means that you have no chance of winning her back, but that might not be true. If you are able to use attraction as a way to turn that hate around, you may find that you ARE able to make her love you again. Of course, you DO have to know how to make her feel attracted to you and then escalate that attraction to the point where her feelings begin to change.

How to create rapport with your ex girlfriend

While it may seem hard right now to create rapport with your ex girlfriend,  I want to point out something.

You already did it once before.

That’s how she became your girlfriend.  So what you are really trying to do is RECREATE rapport with your ex girlfriend.

Now …

That’s really what we’re going to talk about.  How to RECREATE that rapport that you once had with her.  And yeah … it ain’t always a walk in the park.  Still,  it CAN be done and it can actually be kinda easy *if* you know what you are doing.

The first thing that you have to know is …

She might have her defenses up and that’s going to make it a little harder to create rapport with your ex girlfriend.

In fact,  she probably will.  Sometimes guys in the PUA world will call it a bitch shield.  That’s normal.  And to be expected.  Women are pretty savvy when it comes to relationships.  Moreso than most guys are.  She probably knows that you are going to try to do “something” to win her back.  And naturally,  she’s going to have a skeptical side to her,  even if a part of her is open to the idea of getting back together.

The second thing that you have to know is …

What worked to create rapport with her before might not work again.

I mean the exact same things.  That’s one of the things that guys kind of get wrong.  They’ll forget that she’s not exactly the same woman she was when they met.  So the old things that you did might not go over so well.  We’re all changing,  all the time.  Even if it is ever-so-slightly.  You gotta get to know the “new” her and be adaptable when you meet up with her and are around her.

That said …

The easiest way to create rapport with a woman is to ACT LIKE AN ALPHA MALE. 

Because it’s the way you are supposed to act.  And she’s wired by NATURE to respond to that.

But …

It can’t be an over-the-top act.

She’ll be able to see right through it.  She’ll know that you are just putting on an act.  Plus,  a lot of guys have a distorted view of what an alpha male is.  They see guys acting a certain way on television and in movies … and they assume that’s what they should do.

Almost always …

The answer is No.  You shouldn’t emulate what you see on televison and in movies.  Cuz it’s fake.  It’s fiction.

When you act like an alpha male and it seems NATURAL …

She will respond and she will be in RAPPORT with you.

It’s that SIMPLE.