If you are trying to get back with an ex girlfriend, you are going to have to find a way to talk to her without making her feel uncomfortable. It might be strange at first to think that you could ever make her feel that way, as that is not what your intention is. However, once a relationship comes to an end, things change.
The way that she feels when she is around you can change just as quickly. There are certain things that you don’t really want to get into if you are having a conversation with your ex girlfriend if you don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable.
You really shouldn’t want to make her feel that way if your intention is to win her back. The more awkward or uncomfortable that she feels, the less likely you are going to get the time that you need to really make any advances towards a reconciliation.
Here is some advice on how to talk to your ex girlfriend so that you don’t end up making her feel uncomfortable:
1. You want to stay away from discussing things that will lead to an argument.
I am sure that you already know very well what things that you can bring up that will probably lead to an argument with her. Those are the kinds of topics that you don’t want to discuss. If every time that your ex girlfriend has a conversation with you, it leads to fighting, she isn’t going to want to give you the time of day after a while. And that’s going to be hard to overcome if you are trying to win her back.
2. You also want to try to stay away from sounding too mushy, too cheesy when talking to her.
You might want to come across as being the most romantic man on earth when you are talking to your ex girlfriend, but in the context of being her ex boyfriend, that’s just going to come across the wrong way. That’s not to say that you don’t want to be nice, or that you don’t want to toss in a sweet thing to say to your ex girlfriend here and there. Just don’t go overboard with it.
3. You DO want to talk about things that make her smile, feel good, and remember the good times with you.
The more good feelings that your ex girlfriend associates with you, the more likely it is that she is going to want to continue to have conversations with you and spend time with you. And, if you can keep making her feel really good around you, the odds that you’ll be able to attract her back to you are going to shoot through the roof.