How to Talk to Your Ex Girlfriend Without Making Her Feel Uncomfortable

If you are trying to get back with an ex girlfriend, you are going to have to find a way to talk to her without making her feel uncomfortable. It might be strange at first to think that you could ever make her feel that way, as that is not what your intention is.  However, once a relationship comes to an end, things change.

The way that she feels when she is around you can change just as quickly. There are certain things that you don’t really want to get into if you are having a conversation with your ex girlfriend if you don’t want to make her feel uncomfortable.

You really shouldn’t want to make her feel that way if your intention is to win her back. The more awkward or uncomfortable that she feels, the less likely you are going to get the time that you need to really make any advances towards a reconciliation.

Here is some advice on how to talk to your ex girlfriend so that you don’t end up making her feel uncomfortable:

1. You want to stay away from discussing things that will lead to an argument.

I am sure that you already know very well what things that you can bring up that will probably lead to an argument with her. Those are the kinds of topics that you don’t want to discuss. If every time that your ex girlfriend has a conversation with you, it leads to fighting, she isn’t going to want to give you the time of day after a while. And that’s going to be hard to overcome if you are trying to win her back.

2. You also want to try to stay away from sounding too mushy, too cheesy when talking to her.

You might want to come across as being the most romantic man on earth when you are talking to your ex girlfriend, but in the context of being her ex boyfriend, that’s just going to come across the wrong way. That’s not to say that you don’t want to be nice, or that you don’t want to toss in a sweet thing to say to your ex girlfriend here and there. Just don’t go overboard with it.

3. You DO want to talk about things that make her smile, feel good, and remember the good times with you.

The more good feelings that your ex girlfriend associates with you, the more likely it is that she is going to want to continue to have conversations with you and spend time with you. And, if you can keep making her feel really good around you, the odds that you’ll be able to attract her back to you are going to shoot through the roof.

Question About No Contact With My Ex

Question:  Hello, I’ve been trying to follow the rule of having no contact with my ex girlfriend, but I am having a hard time. See, we live close to one another and attend the same gym, go to the same stores, etc. So, I really can’t have no contact at all with her. I am going to see her in social situations from time to time or just when I am out and about. How should I handle this?

Answer:  When it comes to having no contact with an ex girlfriend, sometimes you really are in a situation where you can’t literally have no contact at all. You don’t want to walk right past her and totally ignore her. Well, you could probably get away with doing that once or twice but beyond that and it is going to look like you are just ignoring her to spite her and that is not a good way to leave things open to reconciliation at some later point in time.

In these kinds of situations, the best thing that you can do is have LIMITED contact with her. For example, you are in the gym and you walk by her and she makes eye contact with you. If you totally ignore her, you are going to look like you are doing that just to be a jerk and that’s not a good thing. However, you can give her a quick nod hello and a smile and carry on as if you are so focused on working out that you don’t have time to chat. That is still going to have a positive effect because of the fact that you didn’t act like a jerk to her, but you also didn’t stop to spend time with her.

Or, you can shoot the breeze with her for a moment or two and then walk on to do whatever else it was that you were going to do. The key benefit from applying no contact or in this case limited contact is to NOT act like most guys who try to give their ex girlfriend TOO MUCH attention after the break up, to not get into any little spats that might cause her to end up hating you, and to make her feel curious about you.

You can do all of those things by having limited contact with her.

I know, there are some people that are a little bit to literal when they talk about having no contact with an ex girlfriend. They’ll tell you that you’ve screwed up any chance of getting her back if you even say hello to her, but that really isn’t the case. In your situation, just limit the contact as much as possible for a little while and you should be okay.

My Ex Girlfriend is Playing Hard to Get – What Should I Do?

In just about any situation where you feel like a woman is playing hard to get with you,  it can be difficult to figure out what it is that you should do and how you should react.  Many a man has made mistakes when he is been caught in a situation like this.  You definitely don’t want to screw things up and do the wrong thing,  so it is a good idea that you’d want to get some input and advice on how you should react to feeling like your ex girlfriend is playing hard to get.

Make Sure That Your Ex Girlfriend Really IS Playing Hard to Get With You –

This is the first thing that I would suggest that you do.  When it comes to dealing with an ex girlfriend,  a lot of the time men will see what they want to see.  Meaning,  they will want to feel like their ex girlfriend is playing hard to get when that may not really be the case at all.  So,  you want to take a realistic perspective of things and not come to a conclusion too soon.  For example,  I have had guys exclaim that their ex girlfriend is playing hard to get when the clear answer is that she just doesn’t really want anything at all to do with them.

Don’t Overreact to Your Ex Girlfriend Playing Hard to Get With You –

The main thing is that you don’t want to overreact to a situation like this.  The moment that you overreact to your ex girlfriend playing hard to get with you,  you end up losing any chance that you have of being able to attract her back to you. You want to be calm about things.  You want to have an attitude like it doesn’t really bother you at all.  More than that,  you actually DO want to feel that way,  you don’t want to just fake like that is the way that you feel.

Use Push/Pull to Win Back Your Ex Girlfriend –

This is a really good situation where you can use a proven seduction technique like push/pull to bring your ex girlfriend back.  Most guys will never ever use a technique like this and that will end up being the reason WHY they don’t end up winning back their ex girlfriend.  When she is playing hard to get with you, using push/pull to create powerful sexual attraction with your ex girlfriend is going to be one of the best things that you can do.