Why did she break up with me?
Guys ask this question all of the time when they have just gotten their heart torn out their chest and they are struggling to comprehend the reason for the break up. When you feel like you have been dumped and you don’t know why that is, that can be a terrible experience to have to deal with.
What if she did give you a reason, though? What if she said that the reason she broke up with you was because their was no chemistry?
What exactly does it mean when a woman says that there is no chemistry?
This is usually code for – there is no physical attraction. Usually when a woman says that there is no chemistry, it is just a polite way for her to say that she is not sexually attracted to you. As much as it may suck to have to hear this, it is important that you understand that this is what it usually means. Now, you may think that this means that you have absolutely no chance of winning her back, but that really does not have to be the case at all.
There is a chance that you CAN win her back if you are able to make her feel sexually attracted to you again.
You do know that she was sexually attracted to you before, at least to some extent, and you can make her feel that way again. Then, you won’t have to worry about her saying that there is no chemistry between you and her, because there will be and the sparks will be flying high again.
What is a good way to make her feel chemistry with you?
The best way to go about doing this with an ex girlfriend is to make sure that you are not coming across as being too easy for her. She needs to think of you as being a challenge, because that is a lot more exciting than a guy she knows that she can get.
The other thing that you need to do is to try and create a feeling of sexual chemistry between you and her. You want her to feel this way because it is RARE that a woman feels a lot of sexual chemistry between herself and a guy and that usually means that she will be thinking of you as a guy she wants to hop into bed with again and a guy that she wants to be in a relationship with again.